After having a biological son, my sister welcomed her adopted daughter—but karma struck back right away.
Love Should Have No Limits—But For My Sister, It Did
Love should have no limits. But for my sister, Erin, it did. After giving birth to her biological son, she gave up her adopted daughter without any guilt. “She wasn’t really mine anyway,” she shrugged coldly, leaving me stunned by her harshness.
Some moments break you so deeply they leave you breathless—and Erin’s four simple words about her adopted daughter Lily, just four years old, shattered me like that: “I gave her back.”
Erin’s pregnancy had been long-awaited and celebrated by our entire family. We hadn’t seen her in months since she lived a few states away, and when she returned home holding her newborn son, Noah, the joy in her eyes was unmistakable. Everyone crowded around, cooing and snapping photos, but one glaring absence caught my attention immediately—Lily.
Lily, my goddaughter, Erin’s adopted daughter, who had called me “Auntie Angie” for two years, was nowhere to be seen. No toys, no drawings, no photos—nothing that spoke of her presence in Erin’s home.
I asked, trying to keep my voice light, “Where is Lily?”
Erin’s smile vanished, replaced by a cold hardness. She glanced at her boyfriend Sam, who seemed intent on avoiding the question, then said flatly, “Oh, I returned her.”
I blinked, sure I’d misheard. “You returned her? What do you mean?”
The room fell silent. My parents stopped mid-celebration, confusion clouding their faces.
Erin sighed, as if explaining something obvious. “I always wanted a boy. Now I have Noah. Why do I need a daughter anymore? Lily was adopted—she’s not necessary.”
I dropped the gift I was holding. “Erin, she’s not a toy! She’s a child! You can’t just ‘return’ her!”
“Calm down, Angela,” Erin snapped, rolling her eyes. “She wasn’t really mine. She was just… temporary.”
Temporary. That word hit me harder than any blow. Temporary? That little girl who had called me “Mommy” more times than Erin ever had, who had slept in Erin’s arms, who had made that suburban house her home for two years—was temporary?
“Temporary?” I repeated, voice cracking. “She called you Mom! You fought tooth and nail to adopt her. You cried when the papers were signed. How can you just… give her up?”
“That was before,” Erin said bitterly. “Things change.”
“Because you had a biological child?” I asked, disbelief pouring out. “So Lily doesn’t matter anymore?”
“She was foster care first,” Erin replied coldly. “I knew this might happen. I did what was best for Noah.”
My heart broke for Lily, who had never asked for any of this.
Sam spoke for the first time, his voice low and uneasy. “We didn’t take this lightly. Noah needs all our attention.”
“Was it fair to leave her behind?” I asked, incredulous.
The couple exchanged uneasy glances, but before Erin could respond, there was a knock at the door.
Two professionals entered, their badges flashing under the fluorescent lights.
“Ms. Erin? I’m Vanessa, this is David, from Child Protective Services. We need to discuss concerns about your adoption and your ability to provide a stable home for your children.”
Erin’s confident facade crumbled.
“We received a report that you returned a legally adopted child shortly after birth without a proper transition plan,” Vanessa explained. “This raises serious concerns.”
Erin looked around for support but found only worried faces. “This is absurd! I followed all the rules!”
David nodded solemnly. “We must ensure the safety and well-being of both children.”
I spoke up, voice trembling, “Where is Lily now?”
Grace, the caseworker, looked at me kindly but said, “I’m sorry, but that information is confidential.”
Erin’s boyfriend remained silent, guilt written all over his face.